The first weekend of January we broke new ground for our family. We attended a 3 night retreat at Cannon Beach, OR with
The Elisha Foundation. There were 12 families of special needs children there,
Greg Lucas of
Wrestling With An Angel was our speaker, and it was a life changing weekend for our family. His book is a quick read and we'd highly recommend picking up a copy and reading it before you pass it on to another family. It's amazing.
I honestly could write pages and pages about the retreat, but will instead give you a few of the major things we took away from the weekend and then give you some pictures of our time.
- God doesn't just allow disability, but He ordains it.
- Miles' disability is not a punishment for sin in my life or Eric's life.
- Miles (already!) has a ministry that God has prepared for his life....regardless of his ability to understand and/or communicate with others.
- (this is the "DUH." one...but it's a great reminder for all of us) My walk with Christ is more important than my marriage. My marriage is more important than Miles and his unending list of needs in life....however pressing they may seem.
- We are not alone in the struggles we face as parents of a child with special needs.
- We are equally disabled in God's eyes- Miles' disability is just worn on the outside most the time.
- The divorce rate among couples with special needs children is 80%. SO, when you see a family at the store or the park or school with their child, say a quick prayer for them. It's a rough road that isn't talked about much.
Okay, that's literally just a snippet....on to pictures!
Do you love how "I live in the Northwest" Eric looks here? It cracks me up. ...at least we fit in, eh?....
Aww.....I love us.
Admiring the ocean.
Janelle. I should write an Ode to you, Janelle. Janelle served our family with total reckless abandon this weekend. I didn't hear her complain once about our crazy-tired children or Miles and is nasty diapers or our sleep deprived nonsensical talk every evening at dinner. She was with us from the time we left our room in the morning until the last child closed their eyes in the evening. She prayed for us, served us, loved our children, cleaned up after us, answered for us when we were too tired to know if we wanted soup or salad....she is a rockstar. Then we cried like tired little babies when we drove away on Sunday. She probably thinks we're totally nuts. (She's only half right.....)
Maggie, just moments after she went for a full body swim in the Pacific Ocean. in JANUARY. with HER COAT ON. My oh my.
Family picture take 1...
take 2....
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take 5...
and take 6.